Yesterday someone in my Facebook group admitted that she was marketing in a way that she really didn't like because that was the "template". You know what she's talkin' about. There's this template that you've been given (either by a business coach or that you've picked up from watching everyone else) of how you should do things and what "works".
But it's not working, is it?
What if you could stop wasting time
So, do you want to stop f*cking around and wasting time with what’s not working? Wouldn't you rather do/create/say what feels authentic, figure out what's actually going to work (aka $ELL), and how you need to show up to make a bigger impact on your people?! (um, of course you would!!)
This is why I LOVE helping people like you. Because my spiritual gift is that I'm able to quickly get you aligned. I so clearly see what it is that's keeping you from speaking your truth, showing up in your power, and bringing in bigger results. Want some examples?
I will help you align your business with your soul ➡︎ you will own your gifts, your voice, and write your own rules ➡︎ you will step into a bigger, bolder, totally authentic and powerful version of yourself ➡︎ and ultimately make a bigger impact and more ca$h money because your results reflect how you’re showing up energetically (NOT your strategy). Oh, and it will feel easy. Your flow is waiting for you.
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When you started your business, you started doing all the "right" things. You got a website, professional photos, funnels, got visible in the ways you were taught (not the ways that light you up) and posted constantly because you were afraid of not being seen…
And you’ve gotten some success from it.
But you’re tired. You feel confused about what you’re even doing any more. You’re not having fun and want to completely rebrand.
And you think “If my ‘dream job’ isn’t dreamy, then WTF am I even doing?”
This is because you’ve done it backwards. You lost yourself in the process of building your business.
It’s time to find yourself again because your business should be a reflection of YOU. And when it is, shit's just going to
● What’s the thing you want to be talking about but have been afraid to?
● What’s the thing you’ve been wanting to coach on but are afraid to?
● What are the things that would feel like a relief to let go of?
● What’s the super authentic part of you that feels like it’s bursting at the seems to unleash on the world, but you’ve been holding down? (Sorta the same feeling of trying to squeeze into pants that are two sizes too small amiright? Embrace yourself! You're fucking amazing!)
It’s time to build a strong foundation that is
AND BOLD AF
The strategy comes after.
If this totally resonates with you, I invite you to book a call with me and learn about my new private coaching program, RISE UP, ROOTED.
Imagine being able to trust that ALL of your business decisions are the right ones.
You’re totally comfortable speaking your truth boldly.
You feel more like YOU than you ever have, and that feels powerful AF.
There’s no fear, no holding back, no toning down.
You’re on fire, and people are noticing.
And the stress and burnout… GONE.
Your business is FUN and you’re in your purpose every damn day.
This is what ALIGNMENT feels like.
Complete and total alignment with your authentic truth.
FREEDOM to do things your own way.
The first step to alignment?
Listening to yourSelf.
Those nudges you've been ignoring... listen. That's your truth.
That's your way. Your purpose.
Ask yourSelf what you crave.
And then once you know, you can start taking actions in that direction.
Never forget that you're in charge of your life, your business, your mindset, and your energy.
You can create ANY reality you desire. You're THAT powerful.
It's time to get intentional and aligned AF.
Your dreams keep getting shot down.
Your mastermind tells you it’s not a good idea.
Your business coach says you should do this instead of that.
You go against your intuition and create offers that you’re not aligned with and sell in a way that feels crappy, all because that’s how it “should” be done. Or that’s what will supposedly make you money.
Your market research is telling you to say it a different way, and you edit down until you don’t recognize it anymore.
You’re tired of pretending to be something you’re not online.
No wonder you’re not fulfilled or getting the results you want! It’s time to start listening to YOURSELF.
I know you want to. You’ve been DYING to.
You’re just scared.
Scared to give yourself permission to do business your own way.
Scared to let go of what’s not working and trust yourself.
Scared that maybe who you are and what you want to do isn’t enough and you won’t produce results.
But this is all just fear.
It’s a story that you’ve been believing, and that story can be rewritten.
You can do things your own way.
It can feel easier and more fun.
You can speak your truth and be loved for it.
You can be yourself and make a shit load of money (without all the bells and whistles) And actually, being yourself is WHY you're going to make more money.
You’re a leader. A visionary. And it’s time for you to own it.
When you own it, THEN your business is going to change.
Then you will be using your gifts and stepping into your purpose.
Then you will feel aligned.
Then you will attract the RIGHT people to you.
And it will feel so easy.
Like so fucking easy.
One of my mentors told me that I was too focused on myself and needed to focus more on service.
Insert record scratch here.
I was CRUSHED.
I immediately thought "oh my God, am I???"
I journaled, meditated, made a gratitude list... I did #allthethings to try to check myself. None of that helped though, and I was still thinking about what she said days later.
And then it hit me. This bothered me SO much because
this wasn't my truth.
It bothered me because I took what someone else said as truth without checking in with myself first. I automatically went into fix mode and told myself I was wrong (and ultimately, that I wasn't good enough.)
I was uncomfortable because what she said was actually rubbing up against one of my fears about speaking my truth (yep, I have them too!) which is being misunderstood. In this moment, I was not only being misunderstood, but it was by someone I looked up to.
When I realized this, the discomfort went away immediately. The embarrassment, not-enoughness, fixing, crushed heart... it all disappeared, and what took it's place was love and understanding.
❤️ Love for her. Love for me. Love for the lesson. ❤️
And I clearly saw my truth: The entire reason I'm a coach and do this entrepreneur thing is because I want to make a difference in people's lives. I want to inspire and coach and be the best me I can be FOR people. And yes, I want to make way more money doing this and THAT'S OK because the amount of money I make is directly related to the amount of value I'm giving.
I wanted to tell you this because I want to inspire you to really know what you believe and not just accept what other people say as your truth.
I had a past client that was told she was shy her whole life, so it became part of her identity. Until one day during a session she really took a look at that belief and was like "wait a minute, I'm actually NOT SHY AT ALL!"
➡️ You decide who you are ⬅️
So next time you feel triggered, ask yourself:
-What is my truth?
-Is there any truth in what this person is saying? (be honest, this is a good opportunity for growth)
-What are they mirroring back to me?
-What lesson can I learn from this?
If what someone says doesn't sit right with you, no matter who they are - coach, mentor, family member, partner, bestie, mastermind group - stand in YOUR OWN truth.
I'm Jess, intuitive business coach for thought leaders. I will help you make more impact and ca$h money - just by being yourself! Have a specific topic you'd like me to write/make a video about? Send me an email! email@example.com